My husband and I are now taking Dave Ramsey's financial course at a local church. This course is AWESOME! I would highly recommend it to any new married couples. Since finances seem to affect marriages the most we felt the the financial peace course would really help us learn how to budget. So far we both love it and have learned SO much!
This is the monthly cash flow plan that you should do at the beginning of every month. They have them free for you to download on daveramsey.com
On Daves website it explains how you should set up your families budget.